Anxieties and anticipations

In a couple of hours I'm off to get my long-awaited PET scan.  Wish me good juju for normal blood sugar and a heightened tolerance for claustrophobia...and ultimately, encouraging results.  The saga continues.

And soon, I promise a new picture of my new longish short hair.  Finding a good hair day in combination with the motivation to put some makeup on in order to craft the perfect selfie has been challenging.  I'll get there.

(P.S.  My spellcheck doesn't recognize juju or selfie. Hope I spelled them correctly.)

Some good news at last

My blood sugar is low enough to reschedule my PET scan!

I'm set to have it next week on Wednesday, January 22nd.  What a relief.  Now, I can sit back and simply worry about the results, like a normal cancer patient.  Hopefully, I'll be able to hear the results from my oncologist within a few days of the scan.

Still feeling punky from the Metformin, but it's slowly getting better.

Diabetes just plain sucks

I've been trying for days to conjure up some triumphant message about my newest challenge.  Something like, I have type II diabetes, hear me roar! But, it just ain't coming.

Diabetes sucks.  Well, maybe it's just Metformin that sucks.  Metformin is the typical front-line oral medication for type II diabetes.  After being on the lowest beginning dose for a week, I called my doctor to plea for the most aggressive treatment possible.  I'll fix her little red wagon, she thinks.  Let's double her dose.

Ugh. Nausea like I've never had before.  Worse than any stomach flu.  Monumentally worse than anything I remotely experienced during chemo.  I'm sure it's payback for the morning sickness I never had when pregnant with the twins.  We're talking, leave me alone and just let me loll around in my bed all day nausea.

I withstood this for four days, and based on the advice of some of my new online diabetes buddies, I called my doctor today to ask if I could try the extended release version, which is supposed to be gentler on the stomach...plus, being January, our family hasn't come anywhere near to reaching our medication insurance deductible for the year, so the $243 for the 30-day supply of Metformin ER will move us closer to that particular financial goal.

OK, so maybe there's a little bit of a silver lining to this cloud.  Nobody can argue that being committed to eating a healthier diet is a bad thing.  Daily exercise helps bring down high blood glucose, and that's certainly not a bad thing either.  Inevitable loss of excess weight, certainly a good thing.

The true triumph will be finally getting my PET scan...and perhaps getting served up a bit of a lesson in patience.

But still, diabetes just plain sucks.

I'm pissed as hell and I'm not going to take it anymore

Over the last few days, I've been stewing in a silent vat of helplessness, self-loathing, and, above all, unrelenting anger.  It has been paralyzing. I've been ruminating about doctors, doctors' staffs, pharmaceutical companies, and the general rights and wrongs of the world.  A real hodgepodge.

But, no more.

This is my blog, and I can write about anything I wish.

Today, I'm choosing to rant about how employer-provided healthcare is affected by the Affordable Care Act.  And, I should probably say that while I'm not necessarily a proponent of the ACA, I do believe in and hope for universal healthcare for every American citizen.  But, really my position on this issue doesn't have any bearing on what I'm about to rant about.  Here goes:

I'm sick and tired of hearing how Obamacare is going to raise our healthcare costs.  However, I'm not naive nor do I desire to spin a political agenda that doesn't want to recognize that end user healthcare costs have risen and will no doubt continue to rise, but before you go pointing your finger at any political entity, make sure you've got your ire doled out in all the right places.

The health insurance industry decides what price to charge the employers who buy group policies to offer to their employees. It is, certainly, reasonable that as the ACA mandates new coverage requirements (like pre-existing conditions) to the insurance companies, the insurance companies must estimate the cost increases required to pay for these mandated changes and decide how to cover them.  They are the first gatekeeper in determining the cost of your employer-provided healthcare insurance, yet I've heard zero discussion of the power the insurance companies wield in determining our out-of-pocket costs.  Their bottom line is profit making through exploiting a market need, not offering affordable healthcare.

The next gatekeeper, whom I would hope carefully and compassionately determines how the ACA affects your wallet, is your employer.  But, once again, your employer is a profit making (or at least profit-protecting) machine too.  Once the insurance company passes its premium quotes on to your employer, your employer must decide what percentage of that cost they are willing and able to cover.  The remainder is what you pay every month for the privilege of health insurance.

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Is everyone in this chain acting responsibly, smartly, and without malice?

Don't worry.  My rants are far from done.  Soon...why you really might or might not be able to keep your primary care physician.

And hopefully soon, my newly diagnosed medication-induced-or-not diabetes will get under control enough for me to have my PET scan.  Estimate: in about a month. In the meantime, I'll just enjoy the many, many trips to the restroom to which my new diabetes medication is treating me. Happy Flushing!

No PET scan today

A standard preparation for having a PET scan is checking your blood glucose level.  It needs to be within normal limits (70-100) in order for the glucose contrast solution to work properly.

Today, my level was an inexplicable 256.  So, no PET scan today for me.  I've never had a level remotely that high, and there's no history of diabetes in my family.

I've got an appointment with my primary care physician tomorrow to start trying to figure out what's going on.  But, until my blood glucose levels are normal again, no PET scan for me.

The great irony is, a possible cause of the high level is one of the anti-estrogen medications I'm taking.  So, a drug I'm taking to keep my cancer at bay could be preventing me from getting the definitive diagnostic test to determine if my cancer is, indeed, at bay.

Or, it could be something else entirely different.

Sigh.

Festivus for the rest of us

First, a few disclaimers:  I struggled this year with what I wanted to be my responsibilities for Christmas and had a hard time balancing those expectations with my new normal energy level. Last year was so much easier.  I was going through chemo and had a bald head.  This year I have color in my cheeks and a full head of hair.  My only expectation of myself during the Christmas festivities last year was to show up.  This year, I thought I had scaled back from my pre-cancer life.  I thought I had kept it simple.  In actuality, I wore myself out.

Another disclaimer, the next couple of paragraphs have no bearing on my great affection for the friends and family with whom I shared Christmas.  They are merely my reflection of my frustrations (and fear) of where I am.

I think next year I'm boycotting Christmas and maybe taking a family vacation instead. Paul, the boys and I just had the nicest trip to DC for four nights. We did exactly what we wanted to do when we wanted to do it, and someone else did all the cooking and cleaning and driving. If only we'd added a few days on the front end to incorporate Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.  (Again, absolutely no reflection of those with whom we shared those two days.)

Two sets of friends we hadn't seen in a month of Sundays each drove at least two hours to join us for brunch on Sunday in DC.  And, we finished off the trip Sunday night with a nice Malbec at a Brazilian steakhouse and watched the boys stuff themselves silly with carnivorous delights.

Life is short (perhaps shorter for some than others). Do what makes you happy. 

Happy Festivus!


P.S.  I have my next PET scan January 2nd.  I should have the results by January 7th.

Tough old broad

Sunday night, just a week shy of my 49th birthday, something stunning happened.  I was called a Tough Old Broad...by my husband.  I'm sure he meant it in the most flattering way possible.

Let's break this one down, shall we?

Tough.  Okay.  I like that one.  Formidable.  Solid.  Knock me down and I get right back up.  When the twins were born, my mother began referring to me as 'The General'.  Keeping two infant boys in line required order and discipline.  Admirable qualities.

Broad.  Some might find it offensive, or perhaps just archaic.  Something Humphrey Bogart would utter about a co-star at the close of a difficult scene in a North African desert.  It has a certain heft to it, indicating a modicum of respect or street cred, certainly less objectified than 'dame' or 'chick'.  All in all, I don't mind it.

Now, I've had to really think about the other adjective and struggle not to take it out of context.

Old.  Surely, my husband didn't mean to imply that I am turning a corner at this upcoming birthday.  (I thought that was reserved for the next one.)  Perhaps what he really said was ole, which I could construe to believe is really rather charming...like Ye Ole Sweets Shoppe on a storefront in a quaint English village.  

Then again, 'old' is, well, old.  Old, as in, the arthritic twinges I'm starting to feel, the great pleasure of an early bedtime, and shaking my fist at those darn kids speeding up and down our street.

But, let me tell you what old really is. It's knowing what's important and what isn't.  It's knowing the things you can change and accepting the things you can't.  Old is reveling in being able to look my children in the eyes without bending down or picking them up.  Old is the comfort of lying in bed beside my husband for over twenty years worth of nights.  And finally, old is being able to add on another birthday, when I wasn't so sure last year if I'd be able to.  Old is good.

And to celebrate its goodness, tomorrow this Tough Old Broad is flying out solo to visit her BFF for five glorious days.  (Don't worry, Paul.  I think the gynecological oncologist removed the remaining wild oats I might have sown...wink, wink.)